Understanding Consent Clearly
Consent is often misunderstood, especially in environments where silence or obedience is expected.
But consent has a clear meaning.
Consent is:
- A clear and willing “yes”
- Given freely, without pressure or fear
- Something that can be withdrawn at any time
Consent is NOT:
- Silence
- Fear
- Pressure
- Manipulation
- Authority (such as a teacher, leader, or older person using power)
If someone felt forced, afraid, or unable to say no, that is not consent.
In many Nigerian contexts, power dynamics such as age, respect, or authority can make it difficult for someone to speak up.
This does not make the situation your fault.
Understanding consent helps remove confusion and self-blame.
You deserve to feel safe, respected, and in control of your body.
Always.
